Most girls go into these situations (guys with girlfriends) and don't really ask the guy to make a move, they just kind of wait it out. Go into the situation (if you dare) as in, "you need to make a decision." Ladies, if he hasn't dumped her within a week- he's not going to. PERIOD. It is unfortunate but so many times girls get dragged along and become the ultimate "other girl."
Another thing to NEVER do is ... be physical with the guy. Okay, this opens up the door for a WHOOLLLLEEEE LOTTAAA Drama and heartache. Let's face it- you feel a little cheated when the light bulb goes off that he's only using you....
Better yet, don't bother with guys with girlfriends. If they are willing to pay attention to you while they are with someone else- what does this tell you? Think hard.
Plus, THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO THINK ABOUT IS...the girlfriend. I know this is hard especially when you think you really care/want to be with someone, but think about if you were the girlfriend. If we all thought like this, no one would get cheated on...how wonderful would that be? No fights about speculating other realtionships or whereabouts... I think it sounds glorious. Try it, it will change your mind.
Here's the long and short of it, guys that like other girls but are in a relationship...
well ladies, there's just one way to describe these people : DOUCHE BAGS.
And lastly- be sure to voice this to them. Not in a psycho crazy girl slash their tires fill their gas tank with water way, but a simple, "you are a bad person" will suffice. At least someone told them, so one day when they get burned they'll be like..."what was that girl's name? ...she told me so"
Just don't do it. Be smart. And remember, there are other single fish in the sea that don't cheat. And if you have been the "other" girl before, it's okay. Today's a new day, we all make mistakes, just start makng better choices now!
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